Friday 29 July 2016

What are the signs that you aren't being responsible in your life

We all want the very best in life, we plan it, set goals and suddenly, "life happens".

What if I told you that you ate being irresponsible and avoiding responsibility in your life?

Here are the signs that you aren't being responsible in your life:

1. Lack of integrity, not doing what you said you'd do.

2. Lack of punctuality, not showing up when you said you'd do.

3. Lack of commitment, not giving your word for it.

4. Procrastination, avoiding doing what you said you'd do.

5. Making excuses, making stories up as to why you didn't do what you said you'd do.

6. Disrespecting others, being rude to people who remind you of where you are being irresponsible .

7. Tiredness/lethargy, not finding the "energy/strength" to do what you said you'd do.

8. Lack of planning, not having a clear idea of what it is you want.

9. Lack of education, you aren't educating yourself in the area/s that matter to you.

All the above are signs that show how and where you aren't being responsible.

If you want to create the life of your dreams and success taking control of your life and starting to be more responsible is key.

I would love to hear which signs resonated with you and how?

Also, if there is something you do when you are being irresponsible.

Till next time,

Jorge

Thursday 28 July 2016

Being Extraordinary

Are you an ordinary person?

What is your definition of being ordinary?

I will share with you what I think of being "ordinary".

Being ordinary (in my personal opinion) is being safe, playing small and robbing yourself of your future.

Most people refer to being ordinary as being your average Joe, being "normal".

What about being crazy, wild and not conforming to the norm?

I believe that we were born to be extraordinary and achieve incredible things in our lives.

Which areas of your life would you like to get more out of and make a difference?

Which areas of your life you know you have potential that hasn't been tapped yet?

What is being extraordinary?

I refer to being extraordinary when you go way beyond being ordinary or your "comfort zone ".

What I mean is you stop playing safe, you do things that scare you and move you closer to your goal and you have big dreams of you and your future.

When can you achieve and accomplish more when you are ordinary or when you are extraordinary?

What is your current reality?

Are you ordinary? Or,

Are you extraordinary?

I would love to hear in the comments box and how you are being either ordinary or extraordinary?

Till next time,

Jorge

Monday 25 July 2016

Once Upon A Time…

Once upon a time there as child who dreamed of crazy futures and who thought anything was possible…

That child had the rare gift of imagination!

In his/her dreams this child could come up with the solutions to this world’s problems.

Absolutely nothing seemed absurd… Trees would become skyscrapers, old metal would be a means of transport, toys and rubbish would be transformed into objects of fascination and inspiration.

Every day and night this child would dream of new possibilities and his/her options were endless. Truly, there were no limits.

One day this child would be doctor, then the next a farmer, and the next a police person, each and every day was a new beginning…

Nothing or no one would stop this child.

Then…

People around the child told him/her he/she had to grow up that these ideas were pointless and they were just silly games.

These comments were repeated time and time again; the child’s feelings were hurt in a semi regular basis.

This beautiful creative child started to doubt his/her skills, what once seemed a possibility was now pure absurdity.

What this child once considered a dream and a solution was but a puerile stupidity.

The child then became a teenager, his/her interests were different, they were shaped by the people around him/her… Or what was expected from him/her!

“Life” got in the way and… this now teenager thought that life, the world and everyone was against him/her.

Struggles followed… doubt had been planted, towards the end of his/her “innocence” those happy yesteryears were but a “blurred” memory.

Adulthood “forced” its way in and… “adult things” had to be done… Go to Uni, get the best marks, get a job, marry, get a mortgage, have a family, work for a lifetime and retire for a fraction of your worth…

This story wasn’t his/her reality, he/she just bought into it and it became his/her reality.

Can the clock be turned back?

Can this child come out of its captivity?

Can he/she dream again?

Can he/she wake up from that long and deep sleep?

Who knows…

Though, what I know is…

That child, that boy, that girl… was you one day, with dreams and hopes which were taken away accidentally (maybe even intentionally) and that child forgot all about it.

Thought, let me tell you, it isn’t too late…

You can still reclaim your dreams and hopes…

It isn’t too late, you just need to wake up, take back what is rightfully yours and fulfil your prophecy…

Your time hasn’t passed, your time starts now…

The End!

Till next time,

Jorge

There are two types of people in the world

I am a great believer that messages shouldn’t be long, in fact they should be short, concise, to the point and thought provoking…

Do you agree?

I will let think about that one for a while.

As the title says there are two types of people in the world, some people may disagree and that is ok, this is perhaps for those who agree with the message I am going to share.

The two types of people are:

Action takers: these people are on fire, they are on it, they have an idea or goal and they act on it. There is no stopping them, they see their goals through to the end. And,

Talkers: these are people who always talk about what will be, what could happen, what they’d do if things were different, etc.

So, my question to you is, in which category do you fall into?

Are you an action taker and constantly spending your time on the court, playing full out and getting dirty, getting uncomfortable and going for your dreams? Or,

Are you a talker? Just talking about things in general and never really doing a thing, talking how there are “chosen” and “lucky” ones and that one day you will have a breakthrough? Just seating in the stands watching other play?

I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences.

Are there any areas of your life where you aren’t acting but talking?

Please share in the comments box.

Till next time,

Jorge

Sunday 24 July 2016

3 Signs That You Don’t Love And Accept Yourself

As a confidence and success coach it isn’t uncommon for me to hear that people don’t love and accept themselves.

Though, do you know what the main signs that you don’t love and accept yourself are?

Before I tell what these signs are, I would like to share a short story with you.

I am an EFT Master Practitioner, what we do is we tap on specific meridian points where energy is blocked and by tapping we release this energy and the energy is ready to flow, allowing any energetic and emotional blockages to be released too.

However, in traditional EFT when we start a tapping round we do a setup, which normally goes like this:

“Even though, I hate working 9-5 and life is challenging, I completely love and accept myself”.

Seems simple right?

I wish I could put a number to it, though, the vast majority of people struggle with saying I completely love and accept myself!

Going back to blog post.

I decided to investigate more on why people don’t love and accept themselves and what I discovered was that people don’t love and accept themselves because of 3 things mainly shame, guilty and unworthiness.

These are the 3 signs that you don’t love and accept yourself:

1. Rejecting compliments: people who don’t love and accept themselves tend to reject, avoid and deflect compliments because they either feel guilt for receiving it or they just feel unworthy.

2. Talking about everyone but yourself: people who don’t love and accept themselves would avoid talking about themselves at any cost, they will always talk about their family, friends and pets before they talk about themselves because they either feel shame of their lives or they would feel guilty about talking about themselves or putting themselves first. And,

3. Underperformance/underachievement: people who don’t love and accept themselves will be doing “low” paid jobs or jobs that don’t require too many skills because they feel unworthy or any higher paid job, they feel shame of who they are or their skills and guilt that someone better might lose their jobs because of them.

How can people learn to love and accept themselves?

The first and most important step to take to learn to love and accept oneself is to stop judging and criticising themselves.

For those who haven’t loved and accepted themselves for a long time this might sound too simple and even unattainable.

Because of this I have created a 12-week webinar series entitled Learning Love where I share what I did to learn to love and accept myself.

I invite you to take a look and take part on this life changing webinar which will take you from not loving and accepting yourself to fully loving and accepting yourself and who you are.

For more information, visit: http://www.jorgevence.com/webinar-series/learning-love/.

I look forward to hearing from you real soon.

Till next time,

Jorge

The 3 steps that guarantee success, no matter what

* WARING *

Short post!

I get asked all the time what is the key or secret to success?

My response is always the same, no matter what the goal!

Here are the 3 steps that guarantee success, no matter what!

Start: don’t just talk about what you want, get stuck in! get your hands dirty and go for it.

Adjust: life happens, that is a fact! Rather than quitting, adjust your plans, sometimes it will take longer than we expected, other times we run out funds or we just discover that we need some help. Who cares? Just adjust your plans accordingly and carry on!

Never quit: the only reason people “fail” is because they quit, they give up before they can hit the jackpot.

It really is that simple, if you want something bad enough, you will start, you adjust it as and when needed and you don’t quit!

Please share this post, more people need to know that success is really simple, just 3 simple steps to follow and voila.

Till next time,

Jorge

How having a library can help you succeed

We have all heard that knowledge is power.

There is some truth behind it; though, it would be more apt to say that applied knowledge is power.

From a very early age I’ve found reading and learning fascinating, learning ideas and concepts that could help us improve our lives; and finding out what others did or didn’t do to help us achieve what we do.

As I have mentioned before I am a huge fan of Jim Rohn’s philosophy and teachings; in one of his many talks he once said that we should be always aiming to be talked and written about, and that there are two types of people, those who are used as good examples to follow and the others, mistakes to avoid.

How can we learn this?

By reading, or other means like audios or videos.

How having a library can help you succeed?

Books hold stories and those stories have been passed to us to help us succeed.

If you are aspiring to become a scientist you will expected to read books on biology, chemistry, physics, mathematics, etc.

However, every author has his/her own biases and they will explain a subject through their filters, how they see the world.

One of the many things I learned when I was at high school is that when doing a research or leaning in general it is a good practice to read more than one author in the subject you are interested about.

Why?

As I mentioned everyone has their personal view about different topics, at the same time you may agree or not.

By reading various authors you learn to develop your own ideas and approaches to the subject, you learn what works best for you and what doesn’t.

A library of your own allows you to create a wealth of knowledge tailored to your personal preferences and you can read and refer back to them as often as you wish.

Also, when you are committed to your growth as a person or business person the more you learn, the more you are able to contribute to the lives of those around you, you will continue to have current ideas and you will move with the times.

What books should I have in my library?

How long is a piece of string?

Depending on your preferences that’s how your swill look like.

One point I would like to highlight here is that as you change/evolve the books you introduce in your library change too.

I will give you mine as an example, when I was growing up I was fascinated by literature so I collected many books on literature, poetry, grammar, countless dictionaries.

Then, I became a chef, so I collected many books on cooking, especially baking.

After that I went into management so many books about leadership and management followed, plus some of my own written projects too.

At the same I was embracing my spirituality so I added many more books on the subject… I have been collecting minerals for almost two decades, so I educated myself on that and got more books too.

Nowadays, I am in personal development so those are the ones I add to my library these days.

Throughout the years I have enriched my life and library in various areas, and whenever I want to read about something interesting from the past, I know where to find it and enrich my knowledge from it.

Is it expensive to have a library?

Absolutely not, I have spent years building it and growing it.

It takes times. All you need is to buy a book, read and add many more till you build a sizeable library.

How does it help me become successful or succeed?

The more you read, the more ideas you can come up, you will have sources of information available to you whether you have Wi-Fi or 3G, they don’t need batteries or electricity.

When you read you expand your mind, when you expand your mind you expand your possibilities and finally you work towards what you want in your life.

Do you have a library?

I would love to hear what books do you keep in your library?

Till next time,

Jorge

Thursday 21 July 2016

Painting Your Future

Creating one’s future, painting one’s vision are things I am very passionate about.

Why is that?

When I was growing up I had no vision, I thought I was destined to continue the vicious circle my family had been operating from for generations.

At the same time my parents wanted me to do what they wanted, my wishes and desires didn’t seem to matter to them.

I used to think that you had to be of a certain way to be successful, that was what the media was telling me.

Painting Your Future

Today, it is a different story.

Now, I know that the world is our oyster and that we get to decide the life we want, we do this either consciously or unconsciously.

Either way, we are the ones creating that reality.

I know it may sound too easy or too harsh, it is just the reality of it.

We are in charge of our lives, we just don’t know, we get to decide which actions we take or we don’t…

We always choose.

At the age of 16 I thought my life was defined by everyone around me; though, it took some help, some work and most importantly believe in myself, my skills and my future.

Once I understood that my life dramatically changed.

At the age of 16 I wished I wasn’t on this planet, by the end of the year 2000, when I was just over 17 I was ready to die fighting for my life.

I was in love and I believed in my future.

2 years from that at the age of 19 I moved countries and I started a new life…

That was just under 3 years of me wanting to be gone for ever and good.

If my life had ended at the age of 16, I would have missed out on what I wanted to have in my life soooo bad…

I learned the hard way that the lack of believe in myself and my future was what was holding me back…

What did I do?

I started to dream again…

I started to believe in myself…

I started to believe the world was my oyster…

I learned that my life was mine, I was in control…

I learned that anything is possible if I want it bad enough…

I learned to paint my life and my future the way I wanted to be…

I learned to work for and towards my dreams…

I realised that I was the architect, builder and project manager of my life…

I learned to trust and believe in my options and possibilities.

To paint your future all you have to do is to start dreaming again, with all your might and be as creative as you want.

Just, don’t forget the most important piece of the puzzle, ACTION!

Paint your future in your mind, on paper, in a vision board but just not dream about it, act on it.

Till next time,

Jorge

A Year Older… So What?

So, my birthday has been and gone and it was a lovely and pleasant day, that’s it!

Now what?

I am a year older and nothing has changed… I am the same person I was 3 days ago before my birthday, and life remains the same.

A year older… so what?

Nothing changes, I am facing life the same way I was a week ago.

I remember a time when I was in my late teens and early 20’s when I used to say: I will be happier when X, Y, Z happens…

My life will find its purpose when I do X, Y, Z…

I will be a better person when I become X, Y, Z…

This and that and the other will be possible when X, Y, Z happen; then, only then I will be, do and have what I deserve.

Guess what?

It never happened…

Life continued its course, the clock remained ticking, the world around me went by just like nothing…

Then what?

I learned…

I learned that what I want for tomorrow I start working for today! Not tomorrow when it may be too late!

I learned that age does NOT matter, what matters is how we approach life.

I could be 73 and still expect life to happen to me, rather than to take action and make it happen for me.

I could be 15 and totally get that my future relies in the action I take in the now, so when I am 25 I am the person I wanted to be, I do what I wanted to do and I have what I wanted to have, but as a reward for my hard work.

I have learned that X, Y and Z are in our control, we call the shots, we decide what the building blocks in our lives are, we are the architects and builders of our present, and future, only us.

I have learned that the past is irrelevant to the now, all that matters is the now.

What is the now?

The now is timeless…

The now is ageless…

The now is full of possibilities, and all for grabs…

The now is ours and we decide what we do with it… or not!

Some people call the now the present, it is a present, it is our gift, why not act on it?

The now is the starting point to create the life we want, only we decide whether we claim that birthright or not.

I was minding my own business and replying to an email as I was listening to Jim Rohn and in this audio he said the following quote:

“The life best lived is the life by design!”

This is exactly what I have learned that age doesn’t matter, what matters is our attitude, or as Jim calls it our philosophy, and that the life best lived is that we choose for ourselves…

We get to become whomever we want to be… which then leads to us doing what we want to do (in our own terms) and have whatever we desire in this life (I like to call it our rewards for our hard work).

I hope you have enjoyed today’s post.

I would love to hear your comments.

Till next time,

Jorge

PS, I could not resist to use my pictures of then and now as today’s post’s image.

Tuesday 19 July 2016

33 Lessons I Have Learned So Far

Today is my birthday and quite frankly I personally see it as just another day…

The reason I say this is because every day is a GOOD day and a good reason to celebrate life, being alive and your own live, this is just my personal philosophy… and TBH I love to be made feel special every day, so why wait 364 days every year!

However, every year I feel humble and happy to remain in this planet, I have seen and known of people die very young, as children, teenagers, adults; some are accidents, some others due to illness and regardless a loss is a loss, especially to those who lose their relatives.

I feel gratitude to have health and life, and love, and family and friends, in fact, I am glad to still be here, alive and be able to tell my story.

Also, every year brings wisdom and new learnings which I always welcome because I believe the day you stop learning and growing that’s it!

So, today I want to share with you the 33 lessons I have learned so far:

Be grateful every day for who you are, what you do and what you have, work for more if you want more, and not compare yourself to others.
Every day is a new start, if you “messed up” yesterday that’s ok, today is a new day, it really is that simple.
Laugh as hard as you can, laughter truly is the best remedy.
Eat well, drink well and sleep well, that’s the answer to many of our “issues”, good health equals good well-being, which triggers good and happy thoughts, which leads to great results, which then leads to a life of fulfilment and ultimately happiness, you learned what matters the most to you.
I learned that loving and accepting oneself is key to heal, to grow and to move on; it may take time and when it happens it frees you and life gets much better then.
I discovered that love is key… and not just any love, but our own, then we are able to welcome any other kind of love into our lives.
Being present is much more than just being in a room with someone, you are present when you give yourself fully to the other person or people.
Life is not easy, life isn’t difficult either, life is a gift that we must ensure we honour and enjoy every second of it.
Time is the same for everyone, we all have the same 24 hours; what matters is how we use them, schedule and manage them to work for us rather than against us.
Dreams can become a reality when you stay true and by the side of the child you once were, it is the spirit of that child that makes our dreams come true, do not silence it, do not hide it; embrace it and honour it.
We are equals, there is no doubt, we are the ones who create barriers, borders and excuses to segregate ourselves from the rest. Just bring those barriers, thoughts and excuses down and open your heart, mind and arms to love ALL of humanity.
We all have beliefs and other peoples’ beliefs we call them their “opinions” and they are entitled to those, let’s let them be and respect their opinions, so then can respect ours too.
Looking at the stars at night in a clear sky is a reminder that our possibilities and options are endless and vast like the universe, so let’s not forget this.
We all deserve someone special in our lives, and that person is there looking for us too! We just need to start looking now.
Respect is earned, 100% agreed; however, it too is shown, demonstrated, given, taught and lived by, so others know we live by our word and we mean it.
Work mustn’t be a chore, once you find your purpose and your raison d’etre, everything falls into place and you will never work a day in your life.
Exercise your mind, like you do your body, the more ideas you read about, the more ideas you will generate and find the solutions to your “problems”.
Practice an act of kindness every day… not just any kindness but to yourself, be kind to yourself every day, so you can then be kind to others and real mean it.
Guilt, shame and embarrassment aren’t real, these are just stories we tell ourselves over and over again, so we don’t achieve our excellence. Track your thoughts and set yourself free.
Freedom isn’t doing what you want, freedom is doing what you said you were going to do, some call it integrity, when you act from a realm of integrity you are whole, therefore free.
There isn’t good or bad people, just people with different views and opinions, that’s all.
Education is the key to allow someone in our lives. You want people to “get” you and “understand” you, let them in and show them who you are… teach them and educate them about you.
Patience isn’t a virtue, patience is being present and is a present we owe ourselves and others.
Animals are much more conscious than what we give them credit for. 16 years ago I felt lonely and unloved and a cat gave me love and company… Are you missing out on company and love by mistreating them or simply by not giving them a chance?
The difference between the past and the future is the now, your past was once your future, your present was once your future; if you want a better “future” start now, make the difference now and start taking action.
Honesty and honest people are a “fruit of our imagination”, we all lie to protect ourselves from the world, if we want others to be honest, we have to start being honest ourselves, if we can’t then let’s be realistic.
World peace is 100% achievable, let’s get rid of our “double standards” and start creating the world we want to see now, in our very own back yard… lets be kind to one another, let’s be helpful with one another, let’s be humane with one another and the rest will fall into place…
People are people, friends are people, family are people, then why should we treat them differently, when in the end they are ALL the same.
Hatred and hate aren’t always directed to others but to ourselves because we can’t stand ourselves, so we treat people the way deep down we know we treat ourselves… Just love and accept yourself and that hatred and hate will vanish…
Plants and trees are the reason we inhabit this planet, lets respect them… We used to laugh at our ancestors because they celebrated the elements and nature, they knew what they were doing and who was the hand feeding them, it isn’t too late to start modelling them and celebrate nature by not killing it.
When we compliment someone, they compliment us back and we all feel good, win-win…
Education isn’t everything, though, it helps a great deal, it leads to knowledge and knowledge truly is king and power.
Life and love aren’t impossible, they are our birthright, we just have to claim them back, work towards it and honour it every step of the way…

These are the 33 lessons I have learned in my first 33 years of life and I look forward to the next 66 if not many more years and I welcome the next lessons.

I would like to hear what lessons you have learned so far in your life, or let me know which one of my lessons resonates the most with you.

Till next time, with lots and lots of love,

Jorge

PS why not share these lessons with others too.

Thursday 14 July 2016

Honey... You are home!

Honey I am home!

This is such a well used phrase to represent a man or woman coming home from work, happy to see his/her family.

Sounds beautiful and idyllic that a husband or wife is happy to be back home after a long day and a well deserved break.

Though, I never hear the expression/phrase: honey... you are home!

I know what you are thinking...

This phrase may be taken in two or three ways...

1. Honey! You are home?... Surprised
2. Honey, YOU are home... Indifferent, and
3. Honey... you are home! Total and utter joy and delight to have their partner home.

The latter is the variation I am referring to.

Having been born in the 80's taught me a great deal about relationships, communication and cooking.

I am very "old-fashioned" when it comes to welcoming the other half home with a nice freshly cooked meal.

When I was growing up my mother, in fact, everyone in my family stressed the importance of cooking fresh food for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Having a busy schedule can sometimes get in the way of this healthy habit, which is ok, as long as it doesn't become a routine.

What I am trying to highlight here is how many of you welcome your partner with delight and joy?

How many of you go above and beyond to ensure your other halves are well fed when coming home?

Are you showing and demonstrating how happy you are to be with your better half?

Every day when my partner comes come he is welcomed with a a hug and a kiss, and a healthy meal... oh and one I love you, too.

Likewise, when I am coming home after him, he makes sure my needs are met, whether that is making me a meal, picking me up somewhere or carrying my bags.

I wanted to write about this subject today because I am a huge believer that a work/life "balance" are 100% achievable if we work at it.

It is very easy to go the shops or for a meal out or have a takeaway, and what does that show?

Does it show commitment, love and care for the relationship?

Does it show a bit of laziness and lack of attention?

On the other hand, when you get home after a long day and before your partner arrives, getting a nice meal ready in time for his/her arrival says a lot and speaks volumes about the relationship.

I find that a bit of planning and ingenuity are required to find the time for this, but when you do it, your actions speak louder than words.

I love having a meal with my partner as we find out how each other's day went.

Something truly magical happens, however bad the day was, this act of love and commitment takes away any worries or frustrations from the day.

Then, doing the dishes together, having a cup of tea and unwinding together to end the day.

I find this is the "magical" glue that helps relationships to stay together.

When you say: honey... you are home! And it comes from the heart you are speaking to the other person's soul and creating memories that will withstand whatever is thrown at them.

What do you do to welcome your partner home?

How do you show your honey... you are home?

Do you have a ritual or routine you do with your partner?

I would love to hear in the comments section.

Till next time,

Jorge

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Wednesday 13 July 2016

The Source Of Happiness

One day in my late teens, as I was healing from my past and transitioning from teenage into adulthood, I had questions I wanted to ask, though I was too scared to ask anyone.

I was scared because I didn’t want anyone to laugh at me and also I thought I was “isolated” and maybe I was the “only one” with such “silly” questions.

The questions I wanted to ask people were:

What is it like being an adult?

Does like get any easier?

Do your dreams come true as you get older?

What do you do to keep going?

What is the source of happiness?

Though, I never asked them…

Then, one day, I got over myself and I filled myself with as much courage as I could and I headed to my computer…

Who would have thought that the Internet would have the answers to the questions I had.

So, I keyed in the following question:

What is the source of happiness?

To my amazement there were thousands, if not millions of websites with the answer to this question.

Wow, I thought, I am not alone, others have the same question too!

I read so many interpretations, from so many people and so many advices, etc., etc.

Needless to say I ended up feeling even more confused at the end of my search.

Although, I must admit I felt slightly better because I knew I wasn’t alone, I discovered other people had similar “issues” and questions to mine.

What is the source of happiness anyway?

I didn’t find the answer to that question per se, what I did find out was that we all feel there is something missing.

We all think that when we get the six-pack life will be better, we think that when we get the ideal partner life will be nicer, that when we get the job life will improve dramatically…

We think, think, think…

The truth is no outside resource will change anything in our lives if we don’t change our inner game, the way we see ourselves, the way we see others and the way we see life.

The source of happiness is within us, deep down, where so many people are “afraid” of looking in…

Why are people scared of looking in?

Because they do not or cannot love and accept themselves…

Crazy, isn’t it?

People, us in general feel unworthy of our own love; though, we “think” we are worthy of other people’s love.

If you don’t love and accept yourself, you cannot acknowledge or welcome someone else’s love, because you don’t know what it is like or what it feels like.

If you don’t love and accept yourself, you will never be happy…

I learned that to be happy, to find the source of happiness you/we must nurture what is right in front of us, ourselves!

We love and accept ourselves and we realise that we are happiness, that when we are present in our lives, we will notice that we have always had everything it took to be happy; though, we were too “busy” looking elsewhere, neglecting and ignoring the most obvious of places, inside of us.

Happiness has never left us, it’s always been there, and guess what? It is still there, you just need to reach in, look in and you will find it.

There isn’t any “magic pill” or secret to find the real source of happiness, all it takes is patience, love and acceptance, then everything will fall into place.

I promise, everything will fall into place when you heal your relationship with yourself.

Still struggling?

Why not take my 30-mins free consultation and let’s discuss your options to heal your relationship with yourself, create new possibilities for yourself and your life.

Till next time,

Jorge